Dating Advice, Rebound & Transfer Relationship ?! ❤️‍🔥💔 | GET REAL S4 EP13

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we'll be discussing this huh disgusting disgusting today is disgusting today disgusting today we'll be discussing dat

dating Gap and rebound relationship my God rebound jun's for hey what wait can you guys explain dating

Gap what's dating Gap isn't it like the gap between when you date someone and the end of a relationship and then the start of a new Rel Gap I'm assuming that's why rebound relationship is the

next thing that we're going to talk about okay um I'm just throwing assumptions out there it it gives a definition on our lovely piece of paper okay there we go what is rebound

relationship rebound relationships are when someone rushes into a new relationship before they fully process their breakup please share your thoughts on rebound relationships in this episode

given the sensitive no that that they're telling us to give our don't read that one yeah comments down below comments

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[Music] below I think everything has a way of

being justified you always have to hear out the person so if you're going you know straight into a relationship after there could be a reason like haven't you guys seen movies where it's like the

girl was treated like and then like while she was getting treated like Superman just pops up and he's like I'm going show you how a real man is supposed to treat you and then as soon as like you know she's done with the guy

she goes to him I feel like that's okay it depends on how you're being treated I feel like done if it was like a toxic relationship

then it was understandable yeah I mean in Korea too they also have the saying like the best way to get over someone is to meet someone

new I mean I mean in Kore there's TV show about it too so what T is kind of am cuz sometimes it's like at the end of the relationship you're

like talking to the other person right could get a little messy you know can we talk about Korean dating

um like that that how it is you know I mean I feel like do you guys feel like it's a little bit more like Han is a little bit more okay in Korea as opposed

to the US like straight going into another relationship pretty looked down upon in Korea is it yeah it's pretty looked down upon in Korea okay I don't I don't know

too many people that have done it mhm or like oh actually you're right no no I do know I do know I think I think Hing and then like

rebound is a little different so is when you kind of um like the relationship's like dying yeah and then like towards the end you're kind of talking to

someone else and then you start like a sum with them and then you break up and then you like immediately kind of isn't that what hunting in is that's what I is that cheating was told oh

oh man a little complicated is um what's Hing in English transfer so it's like when you transfer from one relationship to another and then rebound is when you break up but

you get into a new relationship right away try to just kind of get over forget about that person I think henan is worse transferring is worse oh cuz you someone

can see it as cheating cuz you're still technically together well here's the scenario okay Ashley you're in a relationship with very toxic man yeah

toxic why it always got to be toxic now he's treating you like dog wouldn't you guys tell me to break up before I mean for forget about all that forget about

all of that you always ask us and then you never take our advice you you're you're just the type to like be hopeful okay maybe it'll work out maybe he'll change you know what I mean you're that

type of Personality which there are a lot of but within that within that uh time frame someone comes in it's like

you're it's like your type perfect your type treats you like a like a queen right and then you guys

meet naturally like say you guys work together yeah yeah you guys work together you guys work together right then you guys went to a he's

getting so you guys went to aik and then he confessed his love for you oh and then you're just like oh man you know what I mean how would you not he's your type he treats you like a queen he says

he wants you he wants and then he kisses you whoa and the lips oh and the lips and the lips damn well is that considered

cheating yeah okay wait well I don't know if it's considered cheating cuz you're not the one that kissed him right he kissed

do I guess okay and then let's add to the scenario you go back home to your ass boyfriend you know I mean like this this and

that you know what I mean yeah how would you feel you know wouldn't you think about that guy that's treating you so well and like wouldn't your heart go towards him is that

cheating yeah so I'll tell him okay let's break up you would tell him let's break up yeah but we we've already considered the fact that you're not that type no I'll say let's break up okay oh

simple is that but would he just break up with me like that cuz you made him sound so toxic like yeah yeah did you guys watch num queen of Tears yeah no so

he's like y oh yeah like he going he going to kill theang you yo let's stop here I that's way too

much bro you watch too many Korean dramas I I binged on Queen of Tears throughout tour no one there's reason for you yeah so in my head I just have Korean romance that's all I like

thinking about so back to reality back to reality okay so it's considered cheating then it's considered cheating I oh here's a question uhhuh is there such

thing as Justified cheating no I think cheating is just cheating don't cheat guys up don't do it

if it's between like H and cheating choose H yeah yeah I mean I'm not proud but I've I've had rebound relationships

it was like the trend in junior high school in Middle School what was your Junior High School it was going to be something recent it was like 3 years ago everyone

was just like breaking up dating the next friend and then that's like exactly what people say is messed up about the younger generation these days is that

what's happening now I feel like I hear a lot of like people my age saying that that happens a lot in the younger generation oh so you're you were fast you caught on

fastly Junior High High School like kind of like everyone kind of did that right maybe not Matthew I just never had girlfriend then my first girlfriend was in high school a junor you've been

awfully silent no my first girlfriend was in grade six oh wow grade six or seven so right now your girlfriend is

Hing number what just kidding so many transfers bro yeah I think but for sure I think juing is I mean I'm not saying it's a

good thing but it's much better than cheating for sure cuz Hing is like yeah at least Le end it before usually when you're on bad terms and then it ends like that Hing is like when you're still

talking to this person you start talking to the other one and then you move on over to that person yeah and you break up and then you date like pretty much like right after or like I think rebound

is controversial because like some people like let's say two people break up one may not be fully over it but then they'll be heartbroken once they see that their ex is already dating and moving on

right right right right right but then like how much time is okay do you consider is good um I guess it really depends on how you yeah CU it's

different for every person right I remember in junior high well yeah I guess it's we never had junior high but um what is grade 10 that's high school sophomore year sophomore

year um I dated a girl that just broke up with her boyfriend and then she dumped me and went back to him so that happens a lot to so you were the rebound

and I the rebound she was like oh no I still got feelings and then but I don't think it was a rebound because they were like I remember them being very like a very cute couple and then it just you

know when like relationships you suddenly have this down like like this boring stage I guess yeah Ki stage what Ki in English

do they have a word for that they don't have but just um phas it's like where the h g yeah so I I guess I entered that

timing of that yeah person's life when that was happening so I was able to you know we and then we basically yeah I I don't think that's anything on you I think she just was confused or like

probably was still in love right but she was two years older oh like happened to be happen to be no one no one liked me in my age but I guess

the nud like me then [Laughter] [Music] how long do you guys usually take um to

enter a new relationship I think it depends it's always depends there's no like yeah so be a year I've had breakups

where like you know I couldn't get out the house for a while and I was like but then but then I've also had breakups with like my guy's like yo let's go to the club let's go let's like you know

let's go new girlfriend that night yeah no I it helped me get over it you know what I mean just being around other beautiful

women and then you know there was that and then it really depends on how you break up and who's kind of the one who's like latching on yeah so I've latched on and I've been the one that wasn't

latching on to so yeah it really depends I'm the type where I get like super clingy with to my friends if I break up yeah I'm always like yo what's up what are you doing what are you doing you can't stand the loneliness yeah why do

you think rebound relationships are controversial is it because it makes the other person feel that your feelings were not genuine ooh maybe ooh I mean that's not fair I feel like it's not

fair it could be because it yeah it's like for the person that just broke up they're just trying to forget the other person right but then the person they're rebounding with might like have genu

genuine feelings guess it could be like but I think as long as you talk to them well talk to your ex no like if you're like like

let's say like commun just broke up and then you start talking to someone if you just let them know like oh like I just got out of relationship if you let them know then the other person knows what they're getting into too so I don't

think it should matter too much then as long as it was like a clean breakup it wasn't like a iffy like oh man but how many breakups are clean out of all the

breakups that happened not many most of your breakups are explain me what's a clean like what's not a clean breakup like when one it's one-sided when one wants to kind of end it but one then

what would the other do like say no and just like continuously so I mean they would probably latch on and be like what can I do better please don't leave me I

promise I'll do better y y but if it's still a no then you wouldn't consider that okay I guess clean breakup you can consider that clean but it's not mutual right

right Mutual breakups are are for the most part clean right yeah I feel like a lot of people are serial daters because they can't stand being alone you know like they need someone to talk to they

need someone to give them attention they call that serial daters yeah like serial serial killers oh I I think I know a couple I've seen a couple definitely cuz it's just they

don't know how to cope with it yeah yeah yeah I've seen I've seen uh people who like just make stories in their head so it's like they break up someone like a Serial dater like they would break up

but they're so lonely that even like the ibing at the at the coffee shop is like oh she's flirting with me you know that Vibe like those kind of

people they think everyone is into them yeah not not into them not like a narcissistic way but more of like oh this could be something like they have this

there's a word for that in Korea too I forgot what it is it's like where where they think like everyone they like interact with is like flirting with them like oh yeah they're interested could be a possibility of a new relationship like

a beautiful relationship oh maybe yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah axe syndrome

what the syndrome they have a it exists like I've witnessed it they think like every that they interact with is like flirting with them they're oh yeah dude they're interested

in me cuz the fact that oh what uh try yeah you let me try let me try I want to try

de Clum bout syndrome that sounds is what you were trying to say can't read that oh okay no I think this is why though this is just my dip P but

I think it's because once they're single like once they break up they realize they're single so they're like oh I can meet whoever I want so I'm like fully open but the mind is like tricking them

into thinking everyone everyone I can I meet or interact with I can have this new relationship with no I think they're just toing to themselves okay narcissistic okay yeah

they just think that they're like they got too much charm or something and they think everyone yeah but I do think you need to spend some time reflecting on

like the break and the relationship after over and not jump into one right away unless it was a toxic relationship like you said cuz feel like if you rush

into it you're kind of like um suppressing those emotions and not really thinking about what you could change in the new relationship going

forward the things you could improve and things you could do better and then you end up like while in the relationship you might have a revelation you're like

[ __ ] maybe I jumped into this too fast dang like so I do think you need to spend some time after a relationship is

over reflect I have I have jumped right into relationship everything depends on how the last relationship ended yeah to pretty much like we need scenarios cuz

you can't be the only one in the relationship that did good you can't really say like oh I was perfect it was it was the other person who made all the mistakes so and you know what I feel

like whatever the situation is if HZ or like a rebound relationship or the Gap is short you're going to be criticized regardless I feel like nothing is going

to justify it to everybody like people who hear the story might be like you know what good good riddance you know congratulations on your new relationship

but to other people you're sl so my best friends I'm like yes you go get into a new relationship but to your Ops you're like what

wh I've seen so many instances where someone would date like they would date each other for like 10 years they break up and then after a month they marry this person I think that's what it

is no my question question yeah after they got married are they still married yeah they're happily like happily married wa

right yeah right most for me the people like that I know wow how long have they been married for now wow probably like five six years now oh wow they're good then

they're good they're pretty good I mean like you know how you go through the phase of like getting to know each other and like seeing what they don't like and if it matches what I don't like and like you know what I mean

so five years you can learn that so wow especially if they're living together you don't need 5 years to learn yeah that happens fast you see

habits and everything so fast interesting yeah interesting and this is his episode today yeah hey how long does it take you

guys to um get over a breakup that you were the one that was latching on how long does it take oh so long yeah yeah long are you still mourning

over of a relationship you know that you know that no look but you know that relationship I just told you about yes the when I was a rebound I

was really like sad really sad like that was like my Pinnacle of like sadness I felt sadness like it was I remember it was a is that when you started writing

your sad boy songs actually I did write lyrics then too nice yeah but it was when it was like a snowy winter day cuz

it's s winter day can sounds like a so in front of my house hug there's a really big Park and then when it snows heavily it just covers up

with like beautiful sheets of snow it's so clean no one has stepped into it I was just so sad that I just I was the only dude like at night like 2 a.m. just

like walking and listening to like the saddest songs and I and I wanted to feel more of the sadness like I wanted to feel that extremeness and then after feeling that

I was like okay one of those I'm one of those like that's why I'm so sensitive I'm like no no no I'm like that too I like look for ways to be more sad about it so

like when I was in my relationship that I um didn't want to break up for about 2 months every night you know those Soulja bottles that are plastic and bigger oh

my God it was me that Soulja bottle and the floor of the bathroom just together oh my we're just go go go and I was listening to like sad songs like B real

I hate em and sadness if I want to be sad I want to like just you know go crazy yo what was your song like what was the your goto song I still remember mine too it's a Korean song actually a

Korean ballad it's it's one of uh Vibe songs but it's not the cliche like sudia it's like one of their like B Sid trcks so sad it's called I think it's called

py or something P spring in Winter I'm like and I'm like Middle School like I'm like you're like you're like they're talking about are coming to

and then it feels like it just feels satis satisfying you you know what I mean yeah mine was coloring by winner like I'm a color my

gosh I respect that I respect that I respect when was that wasn't that pretty recent then like 2010s oh it was around then it was around school time so funny

it was within the decade I remember those I can't I can't understand he was like I've never been heartbroken heart too

strong I can't understand I can't understand this have you ever been heartbroken in your life

heartbroken he's broken bones before bone I've never broken a bone oh you what is it

oh rupt my tendon I rupt my dis yeah yeah have you been heartbroken before Ashley I'm sure but I think I feel like she's the heart breaker what I

feel like you're the breaker I mean I did always break up break Hearts D break up scenario was not you at all huh what I said earlier no

you I think I cry and I I think I cry more and I'm more heartbroken during the fights that we have in the relationship so I think by the time we break up I'm so over it like I've already I've

already set my mind and I've already kind of like hardened a bit calloused so I'm just like okay let's break up like it's over B mode on

yeah there are times when I used to reply in my head mhm but not say anything yeah so I would I would get in fights what do you mean like like let's

say it happened do you just like suck at multitasking so like you like say you think you said it out loud but you didn't yeah so it's like you know what I mean so it's like it's more like I don't know if I've done that

actually yeah I'm I'm crazy like that but let's say let's say I kind of get it I kind of get it you kind of get it I kind of get it cuz it's like let's say oh I had a something very simple I had a hard day oh my God

Jun I had a hard day at work today then I meant to say oh really uh like what happened but it's like I just say oh really that's it yeah that's it but I

meant to say oh really what happened that kind of vibe you know what I mean okay so it always leads to like that's it you're not going to ask me what happened you don't care it doesn't go like that but it that builds up later

and then eventually becomes me as this dude who doesn't care I'm like but oh but I I said didn't I say and I thought it it counts I thought it in my head

though I said it out loud in my brain yeah in my bra but I actually caught myself doing that I I always denied it I was like hell no that's no way that's some psychotic thing but then I caught

myself doing that and then I was like oh [ __ ] there's something wrong with me you thought all your exes were guest like all this time I thought well dude is there like a word for that but it

happens to me with friends too like they ask me a question and I say yeah but I say it in my head are you looking at your phone when you heard but I sometimes like when I'm like driving or if I'm like texting or something then

like I'll like say like half of the sentence that I meant to say and I daydream a lot like I think a lot just like I zone out I think a lot too oh yeah so I'm thinking about work or like

just if you ask me some stuff while I'm like driving or something I'll like when we park and stuff I'll be like so um yeah what' you

say I'll like reply in the car like I'm listening and then like we'll get out and then like like let's say it's it's like oh yeah like my name's Ashley and then I'll be like driving like oh yeah okay Ashley yeah okay okay and then I'll

like Park and I'll be like so what was your name again yeah it's that kind of thing yeah or it's like oh do you like this place or a a place to eat or B place to eat and I go like oh yeah yeah

yeah like that's what I would do oh my are you good at multitasking I'm so good at multitasking really yes good for youal how should I prove it a scenario

where you can multitask very well a can you I feel like I'm always multitasking though can you look at Instagram and have a heartfelt conversation at the same time why would you do that that's

rude oh she got you no let's end this episode before I My Grave more no but like would oh let's say like it was like like work or

something you were having a heartfelt conversation but like something urgent happened with like work could you could you have like a heartfelt conversation while like texting with about something

urg about work I would say can you hold on a minute like please hold that just going to I just got a message from work let me just reply we're just trying to see about multitasking so would you be

able to what I do all the time if I get an urgent text and my friend is um talking to me I like make eye contact with her and I hear everything she says but I also text and I remember everything she says a computer so it's

not rude if you keep eye contacting you text yeah I'm just like hold on yeah see if if I try doing that I end up saying like so like let's say I'm supposed to like hey what's up and then like I say

like oh yeah thank you I'm like hey thank you that I'd be I'd be texting the here what time they'll be like yo what time do you want to meet I'm like

oh yeah thank you thank you o00 made a thank you o no I've done that I was on name I was texting someone but flavor flave was on

on TV in the background and he said something about like something inappropriate right I think it was like sex or something and I was like hey you want to meet up for no way I like wait

no no I didn't mean to write that I me bubble tea or something yeah that's what you were thinking in the back of your head this is um off topic slightly but

have you guys ever UT like misspelled one sec all the time oh yeah all the time it's so close do you guys have auto correct

on on your phone I do I don't I turn it off I turn it off too it's annoying oh really I have it on doesn't it correct your name oh I added it oh yeah you can

add it yeah Pine a wait did I add it or I don't know I've just typed my name so many times that it doesn't change it anymore now it is oh my God you killed this no what is that what happened I

want to try the green it looks like it's rocks they're rocks we're eating rocks today yeah it looks like like dried up sponges it's

chocolate so good bro you try one I'm black I like the I like this this colored one better black one is good what the heck green one ISS in your mouth after breakup what's like the

first thing you guys do I hang out with friends hang out with my friends obviously I can't be alone depends on the breakup but normally yeah I usually

look to my friends what about you isn't it the same delete photos oh God that's so that's so annoying that's the most annoying thing ever to delete photos I

know I know years and years of memories do you throw away gifts from exus depends on how expensive they yeah

depends on how I I I like to ask like hey do you want some of these back oh no cuz you could probably sell them get your money back whatever mhm but I usually don't take him and they usually

don't take it either same I just like give them to my mom or like friends oh yeah what about letter letters I throw away yeah those are

letters you got to throw there's no way you can't you can't keep that whoa I'm too lazy to find all of them you don't keep them in like a specific box or

oh wait I've been to your house yeah oh thank you I wanted the green one I really wanted the green one I want to try the green one I'm so sorry I should have what oh it's probably like green

tea huh M anyways just you you a Smacker sorry I should

have sold the ring but I just threw it out in the garbage you had a ring like a couple ring yeah I know oh dude you should have

that carrot this was in like 20 2016 T I know you guys know what OST is the that jewelry shop I remember in high

school um when I graduated high school I went on a a Korea trip M with with my ex at the time whoa time to stand up just yeah my Apple watch is

telling me it's time to stand up I've been sitting for too long what the well how long has it been oh yeah but it was the first time going to OST and then did

the couple ring thing oh that took me forever to buy cuz I wanted to buy it for her yeah so much money at the time cuz how much money you have all the Y I

could get from my real how much is it from I I've never bought an OC ring it's like 80 bucks like 100 bucks one or for both for for both oh okay but 100 bucks

is a lot of money for yeah when you're younger yeah like all the Y from when I went to Korea allowance spent it on that

[ __ ] all your like money yeah New Year's money yeah so do you still have it oh

no it's all dude it's OST it's like it broke it literally breaks apart yeah oh is OST like cheap I mean like quality I think it's for like students yes it's for hangang there you shouldn't regret

it because that's how you felt in the moment back then you were being true to your heart so okay yeah okay it made you who you are today so don't regret that okay I won't regret it that was the

fastest like acknowledgement he's like okay I don't want to I don't want no trouble he's like okay okay thank you okay wait what's everyone's love

language for receiving or giving um both uh receiving receiving receiving is quality time and it used to be words of affirmation but now I'm like I don't

need your words anymore show it to me so now I'm access service girl yeah okay what about you J what is it explain can you explain there's love language

there's like a quiz five love languages there's physical touch gifts acts of service words of affirmation and quality time all right there you go I don't even need to Google that dam for so so this

giving and receiving is different different for giving I think gifts I do a lot oh um and words an action yeah

yeah receiving I would like everything that I do the same okay okay yeah yeah you want what you give see you just want all three out of the five yeah like as

much as I give I kind of want the same not I don't expect more but just the same amount okay why are you smirking I don't know

okay wait I don't know what my giving is I think I'm quality time and what were the other ones quality time words of affirmation physical touch

um what are the other two gift giving and giving and um service service service I don't know I don't think I'm a very good girlfriend I can't remember

what I do if you know that's all that out do better I will do better starting

today for me I think mine's acts of service and gift giving giving yeah yeah

cuz like it's not like K like like not like anniversary dates and stuff but like on random days yeah like if I go somewhere I'm like oh I think they'll like this then I'll just like get

it um and then yeah Act of service and then for receiving I think it's just quality time yeah oh I have a question do you guys do a lot of gift um when

it's not like a special occasion M yeah not really not really not anymore really yeah I I do I like doing gifts

outside of the special occasions that's that's why what do you consider like gifts though like like anything like if they want like yeah if they wanted like uh they want to eat this like special

cake that's really famous you have to like wait in line for yeah let's do that like that kind of thing like I I I went through all this to do this right to give this to you like I like doing that

okay but what if you went all that and then the girlfriend's response was just like oh thank you I'm like oh hell no like I said I wanted I want the out the window you want the

recognition right you want the yeah yeah yeah so so with gifting for me um I've had times where I buy an amazing gift

because it's like shopping you know how like when you go shopping you don't end up buying something every time you go shopping you know there are some days where you're just like dude so much good [ __ ] out right now other days you're

like I don't really see much yeah so when I see good I'll be like oh I got to get this and then boom I give it but I've had times where um it was the kumir

yeah it was it was the time where like we celebrate like I don't know four five years whatever 3 years whatever wow that day I I wouldn't be able to find

anything ah yeah so oh I I kind of know what that's like yeah so I I tried to like buy it it and then save it for that day but then I feel bad cuz like it's

just like sitting there when's the longest that the gift has sitting before oh not too long maybe like a month oh okay I been like 3 months like sitting that happened to me so much too yo how

much like you were you like I can't wait to give this to her months every time but you know yeah but does she love it oh yeah yeah for sure that's good yeah

so my I I don't know I don't go shopping like just to shop like I usually just go shopping when I need to buy something if we like go to another

country like we'll buy souvenirs and like stuff right yeah yeah I still were you checking on your friendship with pan no like like if I know that they like a

certain thing like let's say they like candles like like candles or something right then I'll go and then get like a candle that like if I go overseas yeah

like uh where was it I I was in Bangkok recently so let's say like I was in Bangkok right yeah I would probably find like candle represented Thailand somehow

you know you know like like that something thoughtful yeah I would do that stuff but like like for kyir stuff I like giving presents

that they're going to actually use PR on yeah not ones where I'm just like oh I think they're going to like this like it's like something that they like actually use so then I end up just like asking them like what do you want yeah I

think that's a really good one but girls don't like that right they don't oh man I like it okay I say I want this I send the link

what that's so much easier for us a easier when I was younger I like surprises but so many surprises have gone wrong you know so I'm just like I

want this can you please get me this yeah it makes life easier for both of us good point good point yeah I've had some I'll just be like if you want a surprise

send me like five things and I'll pick out of the five okay that's a good idea too yeah not bad wait so what's your

love language I like SM he his physical touch physical touch physical touch is up there I think

I like Words of Affirmation too in quality time touch what's your what's number one you think top one um phys probably quality time through physical

t y no it's just physical touch what about giving physical

touch yeah that's definitely up there too um his his giving love language is physical receiving his touch it's the like

the same as juny I like getting what I like giving okay let's move on man [Music] okay there's a game yeah let's do the

game oh God I love it sorry no that's fun it's fun I hate these games the better one choose the better one okay choose the less worse one L worse okay

less worse one okay first is a a partner who has one opposite sex friend they've known for 10 years or B a partner who has 40 opposite sex friends they message

with every day I almost read that as that they massage every day they M they have 40 opposite sex that's a lot Mass every day they message with every day um

I think is we're choosing which one is better yeah cuz cuz more than likely I'll probably end up knowing him and becoming you know

partner who wants to go on a two-day trip with their opposite sex friend or a partner who wants to drink alcohol with their ex oh my gosh B dude two day trip

yeah they're um B I guess yeah yeah B but what what will happen what if they drink alcohol and then they do something they do something but at least it's it may be it's probably somewhere

nearby so you can go instead of two-day trip to somewhere else like outside of the country or something given that we know where both of them are going to be

I think B is probably better can we hear his perspective like he's still loading like let the robot load first and then what are you

thinking I wouldn't care about I you wouldn't care about either yeah what but what would kind of trigger you

a little bit more it's like so for me it's this it's like do whatever the

cuz wow if they're a cheater mhm they're going to cheat either way like no matter how much I try to like like block it from happening they're going to Che you

like them so much you don't want to lose this person you've been you're in love for the first time ever but if they're a cheater then I don't want a future with

that person so it's like not this tree so it's like if they give me enough reasons to like trust them if they're like transparent with me and

everything like that it's just like go on the trip with your guy friend or like go drink with your ex like I don't care could you ever forgive a cheater

no no I think cheaters always cheat one time you're right you're right right right right so it's like yeah it's if they're going to cheat they're going to cheat so yeah you read the next one okay

a getting a confession in a group chat or B getting a confession on a crowded Street I like which is better which is better crowded Street yeah for sure in

group chat everyone you probably know in that group chat okay Crow probably strangers but do I wait do I like this person that's giving me the do I have the same

feelings that's a different story I C let's say yes then I I don't mind the group chat let everyone know hell yeah oh okay okay all right all right if not

oh leaving that for that person cuz I'm turning down I don't give a I got to do something about that yeah the crowded street is much better yeah I feel like we're all on the same Pace with that

it's not a proposal right it's just it's just a confession like but do they get on their knees noever anyone your

boyfriend I mean acts of service but yo come on no I'm just saying cuz on a crowded Stree that's weird can you imagine like getting on your knees I

like you like will you be my girlfriend okay bees better instead of like William Mar like will you date me who's done it through uh a phone call

or a text before of course all the time I think I mean growing up yeah yeah I've done it I'm not proud but I mean we couldn't talk on the phone a lot in

middle school right yeah yeah style up days yeah why AR you saying anything huh I have I have two all right move on then

rebound breakup ghosting breakup oh oh wait am I the one getting like broken up with yeah yeah yo GH breakup at least

there's closure for rebounds yeah I like turned and I kissed the M I've never I've never uh you know felt I've never experienced the ghosting

breakup before yeah me neither so I don't know how hard that would be wait what what's a rebound breakup like they left you for someone else as yeah oh so

like huning on it like transfer breakup pretty much Oh I thought it was no I thought rebound break was what happened to me the break up with you and go date

another person yeah yeah oh isn't that rebound breakup I mean technically they break they did break up but they immediately found another boyfriend oh

okay um I think ghosting breakup will probably be worse cuz you don't have worse yeah you'll be just wondering forever be so confused what's going on give us more give us more this is fun

fun I guess a partner who cheated with my [Applause] enemy hell no hell no no you SED with

the Ops oh hell no wait the other one is wa Che with best my best friend you turn my best friend into the ax oh my God

terrible this makes me feel so bad bro oh you I feel bad for the audio cuz he's like has to deal with us sorry oh my God

I would I would say enemy cuz if it's cheated with my best friend you're losing your best friend and yeah oh my God so that is worse right but if it's that it's like all

right you were anyways you be M to be yeah yeah yeah I can't I can't lose two in my life yeah please don't oh man

don't do it Mama pu yeah B is better cheating with oh no a is better a is okay cheating with my enemy yeah a partner who drinks coffee at an opposite

sex friend's house at late night or a partner who drinks alcohol with an opposite sex friend during the day yeah I drink coffee with the opposite sex

friends at night all the time I understand that that sounds like such a lie definitely be during the day but yeah also who drinks coffee at night

a l people do a lot people do bro I'm not affected by caffeine yeah I I drink coffee at night sometimes I mean if they need to stay up I guess definitely be

during the day when it's spr out I don't there's less to hide mhm I don't care I don't care B okay A a partner who has

dated 100 people or B a partner who has dated a celebrity oh I mean we're also celebrities so so partner has dated 100 people I guess is better no

it's worse oh it's worse right I I wouldn't care about B yeah yeah I really wouldn't care I would care a partner who's dated 100

celebrities I have mutual friends I know all of them okay probably crosss with some people is better partner who has dated a celebrity how do you date a 100 people a

partner who's dated 20 people in a year a partner who's dated one person for 10 years 20 people in a year damn if you date one person for 10 years think about all the

history the affection The Memory Match death yo 20 people a years almost two a month but it's lightly it might just be

for no if it's 20 20 or two people a month and they got like affection like yeah commitment issues or something yeah and maybe STDs too oh yo you went that

far huh no but it's very likely very likely oh man this is so hard to choe yeah what if they didn't do go through all the physical stuff and they just had

dinner um what if not what if not I don't yeah what if they're just like quick Tinder dates I mean not Tinder but like quick like getting to know each other blind dates blind oh no that's

just like you're not dating them though that's just a a date yeah right yeah yeah I think Pano is right if if it's someone who needs to date 20 people a year that's a problem they got some Comm

they got some like you got to think about if that person dated someone for 10 years they're already molded to fit the past person and it's going to take a

lot to change remember remember what Juni said 10 year relationships and month after you marry someone marriage you could be that marriage you want to

be that marriage though uh I don't want to get married right now so maybe 20 okay so B is better I would say in like a normal situation B is

better is same same that was a very very interesting episode where we talked about rebound and relationship

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