Former Stripper Reveals Why They Have S3x With Some Guys Quickly And Go Slower With Other

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me." You sit there with your drink, feeling like clown at your own life circus. She tells you, "I'm not that

circus. She tells you, "I'm not that kind of girl. Then next weekend, you see her kissing some tattoo idiot outside club." You start thinking women are

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>> Tonight, your Russian big sister explains to you why some men we sleep with fast and others we can barely stand them touching our elbow. You may not like everything I say, but at least you

will finally stop being confused like lost puppy. First thing you must put in

lost puppy. First thing you must put in your stubborn male head. How fast woman sleeps with man is not morality test. It

is biology and psychology test. You

think it's about good guy versus bad guy. No, it's about does my body say yes

guy. No, it's about does my body say yes or does my whole nervous system scream girl run? You look at her and see only

girl run? You look at her and see only behavior. We look at man and feel wave.

behavior. We look at man and feel wave.

safe or unsafe, exciting or boring, man or boy, leader or burden. That wave hits us in first few minutes, sometimes seconds, long before we read his

favorite book or horoscope. Okay, there

is big huge difference between not yet and never in my life. Many of you confuse these two and torture yourself for months. When woman is disgusted by

for months. When woman is disgusted by man, it is rarely about single thing like nose too big or shirt ugly. It is

whole vibe. It's how he stands. If he

looks at her like human or like last slice of pizza, how his voice sounds. If

his energy feels solid or slippery. Some

men when they talk, you feel like you can lean on them. Other men talk and you feel if you lean, you both fall to floor together and cry there. Guess which one we want to sleep with. I give you a

story, real one. So you see how it works, not just theory. My younger

cousin, we call her Katya, came to visit me in Moscow some years ago. Pretty,

smart, little dramatic, of course. All

my family women like this. We go to small wine bar, cozy with jazz, not this nonsense boom boom music. Two guys start talking with us. First guy, his name is

Serasia. Classic good man. Clean shirt,

Serasia. Classic good man. Clean shirt,

decent job in it, polite, asking many questions, laughing at everything she says, like she is stand-up comedian. He

tells her, "You are so special. I never

met girl like you." After 30 minutes, she texts me under table. He is kind, but I feel zero spark. Nothing like

talking to a countant uncle. Second guy,

his name Timour, sits little apart first. He doesn't jump like dog to

first. He doesn't jump like dog to immediately impress. He listens more,

immediately impress. He listens more, speaks when he has what to say. He looks

at her not like she is goddess on pedestal, but like woman he might choose if she is actually interesting. When she

teases him, he teases back. Doesn't

become flustered or turn into people pleaser. At some point he tells her,

pleaser. At some point he tells her, "You are trouble. I can see. But you are beautiful, so maybe worth it."

>> She rolls eyes, but I see her cheeks go pink. Her body already answering before

pink. Her body already answering before brain makes big speech about values. End

of evening. Sera offers to walk her home. Tells her I would never pressure

home. Tells her I would never pressure you. I'm not like these other guys. I

you. I'm not like these other guys. I

respect women. He thinks this will make her feel safe. But it smells of desperation a bit like he is trying to buy sex later with politeness now.

Dimore just says I'm going same direction. You can join or not. Up to

direction. You can join or not. Up to

you. No pressure but also no begging.

Guess who she left with? Do I even need to say? Now you will say, "See, women

to say? Now you will say, "See, women are stupid. They pick cocky guy over

are stupid. They pick cocky guy over good one." But you look only at surface.

good one." But you look only at surface.

You don't see what my cousin felt. With

first guy, his whole nervous system screamed, "Please like me. I need you to like me. I will be perfect boy if you

like me. I will be perfect boy if you like me." This energy is heavy for

like me." This energy is heavy for woman. It does not make us feel like

woman. It does not make us feel like woman. It makes us feel like mother. And

woman. It makes us feel like mother. And

mother energy and sexual energy do not like to mix. with Timor energy was I like you but I like myself too I'm not going to melt into you like cheese on

hot bread I have spine her body trusted that more even if he was bit of rascal you must understand we are not simply attracted to goodness we are attracted

to strength plus desire plus control if man is nice but weak we may feel comfort but no fire if man is strong but no respect we feel fire but no safety

And not every woman is idiot enough to jump into that. The men we sleep with fast are usually men where our body feels both alive and at least somewhat

safe. Not safe like hamster, safe like

safe. Not safe like hamster, safe like he is in control of himself. He won't

cry or break my door if I say no later.

Sometimes disgust is direct reaction to how man handles his own desire. If you

stare at her chest every two seconds, laugh nervously, make sexual jokes too early, you think you are flirty, but you are just leaking horniness everywhere

like broken pipe. This makes woman's body contract. We feel like object, not

body contract. We feel like object, not co-creator. Real masculine man can feel

co-creator. Real masculine man can feel strong desire and still hold frame, not drool. That is attractive. That is when

drool. That is attractive. That is when we want to rip your shirt off ourselves because you make us feel like woman not product. There is also thing nobody

product. There is also thing nobody tells you honestly. Woman can be very moral with one man and complete little devil with another. How? Because with

one man she feels nothing. So she brings out her rules, her logic, her theories about right timeline. With other man her body takes control and throws her rule book out window. You can judge this if

you want. But even Toltoy already showed

you want. But even Toltoy already showed it in Anna Carinina. Anna Carinina Anna is respectable wife.

>> If you guys never read that book, it's actually a really good book. Um, another

good another good book from Leo Toy Story. Well, not Leo Toy Story like the

Story. Well, not Leo Toy Story like the Russians is war and punishment and that were what is it? What's that? Um, crime

and punishment. Really good books.

>> Wife, mother, polite lady of society.

Then Brunsky appears with his confidence, danger, charisma and suddenly she is ready to destroy life, reputation, everything for him. She did

not make PowerPoint about pros and cons.

Her whole being simply burned for this man. Now before

man. Now before >> Yeah, that's why when a woman makes excuses is BS. No such thing as an excuse to be with you. It's an emotional

decision and emotional decisions make no logical sense. So if she's busy there

logical sense. So if she's busy there there's no like there's reasons not to be with you but to be with you there's no reason other than the fact that you know how to trigger those emotionals

or you go full victim mode and say so I must become toxic bad boy calm down you don't need to be ronsky you need to stop being Karen you know the cold correct

predictable husband who is more like wallpaper than man women are disgusted not by kindness but by neediness and lifelessness.

>> Mhm. When you orbit around her, drop your friends, your hobbies, your ambition just to be available in case she wants coffee, you become background music. No one wants to have sex with

music. No one wants to have sex with background music. Sometimes we sleep

background music. Sometimes we sleep with man fast because we simply don't place him in long-term category.

>> That's a fact. And a lot of guys that get that get a lot of play complain about that. Actually, they complain

about that. Actually, they complain about the fact that women don't want relationships with them. [snorts] And

then they they'll go back to their husbands who they love, but their husbands will be mad at the fact that their woman can, you know, can have an

orgasm with the guy that the alpha male, but the alpha male will be mad that that woman doesn't love him. Like like

because consistently these guys struggle keeping a woman. The guys that get sex quick struggle keeping a woman. Nobody's

happy in these situations. That's the

thing. He is holiday romance, emotional vacation, maybe rebound.

>> You might see this and think, "Oh, she must like him more than me. She gave him sex quicker." Not always. She might

sex quicker." Not always. She might

respect you more, fear losing you more, so she moves slower because long-term feels possible. With fun guy, there is

feels possible. With fun guy, there is nothing to pretend.

>> Like I I I understand why guys get mad at that when they hear that. But it is true. It's a real thing. It's

true. It's a real thing. It's

that woman will die for you quicker than she'll die for the guy that she'll sleep with quickly.

That's a fact. But the problem is that that's a [ __ ] up mentality because that's being inconsiderate of of your humanity. That's being inconsiderate of

humanity. That's being inconsiderate of how most men would react. That woman

will always have unstable relationships with men.

>> Like eating cake at midnight. You know

it's not breakfast food so you don't stress so much. You also need to look at your own relationship with sex. Many

young men secretly believe sex is some holy medal. Woman gives you when you

holy medal. Woman gives you when you perform good boy behavior. You buy

things, you listen to her trauma, you act like therapist and then you expect reward. But woman feels this transaction

reward. But woman feels this transaction energy. It is creepy in its own way.

energy. It is creepy in its own way.

When you treat her like vending machine for intimacy, she is disgusted. same as

you would be if someone only pretended to be your friend to borrow money.

Healthy man sees sex as mutual desire, not prize. He's also evaluating her, not

not prize. He's also evaluating her, not just waiting to be chosen like cabbage at market. Let me be little mean for a

at market. Let me be little mean for a moment, but with love. Some of you are physically, how to say, lazy. You don't

take care of yourself. You smell like anxiety and old hoodie. Your posture

screams, "I gave up." And then you ask why woman is not jumping on you.

Darling, even I would not jump on you.

And I have big imagination. Attraction

is not only about six-pack, but basic standards matter. Shower, clothes that

standards matter. Shower, clothes that fit body, not war with it. Touch of

cologne, not full bath in it. Eye

contact that is steady but not serial killer. These things don't make you

killer. These things don't make you model, but they remove immediate oo reaction. The men women sleep with

reaction. The men women sleep with quickly usually have three things in some mix. They feel like men with

some mix. They feel like men with direction. They are not starving for

direction. They are not starving for female attention and they are comfortable with their own desire.

>> And what that means is that they already have sex and they don't need it more from her. That's it. It it implies that

from her. That's it. It it implies that they have options when you when you think that way. And whenever you imply that you have options, women will react to you with more intensity.

That's a fact. They when you imply subtly that you [snorts] that you that you get women, they will react and say, "Okay, I can sleep with that guy quickly." When you imply that you want

quickly." When you imply that you want long-term commitment, they'll go slower, but they you have the they have the they have the capacity to love you long term.

So, that's the thing, you know, like you can't have everything. You really cannot like [snorts] you cannot have everything in life. You got to have one or the

in life. You got to have one or the other. There's no middle ground. And

other. There's no middle ground. And

anyone who tells you that you can have the middle ground is just lying to you.

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