women...wake up!

I have to stress this at the beginning that this video is not like a man-hating video this is a video to teach women to come into their power basically and to

like wake the [ __ ] up okay I really guys I really do not want to see any comments going I hate men not here okay hello my second Channel welcome back to another video today

we're going to be talking about women number one we are not each other's enemies and in a world where pretty much everything hits women against each other

and it's so much harder for women to get the same respect as men to climb up the corporate ladder among many other things women need to be there for each other and we have to support each other

another woman is not your enemy don't say negative things about another woman lift each other up okay if someone doesn't respect you you need to walk away you teach someone how to respect you from the moment you meet them that

will set the tone for the rest of the friendship or relationship however I want to also add that being a woman the patriarchy will really put blame on a woman for everything and they'll be like

okay that man is treating you badly because well you weren't like in your feminine energy enough or something like that the blame somehow will always lead back to the woman someone else's behavior is not your fault however it is

your responsibility to walk away to put your foot down and be like I'm not gonna allow you to treat me like this anymore because I have self-respect and self-worth I'm going to talk about this more in the video but I'm very happy

that Tick Tock has now started to talk about the whole feminine and masculine energies I started to learn about this in late 2020 before it became a trend however one of the toxic things about

this that I see people preaching is that if your man treats you badly it's because human in your defined feminine energy and you therefore were not nurturing his masculine energy you no

one grows two ways right and I also want to add that you can do everything correctly but if a man wants to treat you badly he's going to treat you badly anyway don't revolve your life around a

man build your own life and a man will come second okay I promise ladies you really prioritize on building a fulfilling life for yourself outside of a man that is when you're going to attract the best partners because you

will feel whole in yourself if you don't feel whole you feel incomplete you're looking for a sound of validation external love you need someone else to fulfill you you will literally feel so

insecure that you will attach onto every single person that comes your way that is one of the reasons why I think a lot of people get attached easily because we feel incomplete someone comes along they

might not be perfect but we will project onto them and be like okay they are going to fulfill this fantasy in my head and while it flops okay especially with a lot of these feminine energy videos

going around uh a lot of the girls they're preaching you know being stay-at-home moms and having a man provide for them absolutely nothing wrong with that at all not against that

but I want to say it is important to have a financial backup okay don't be fully reliant on your man have your own bank account

um have skills so if the relationship goes wrong you can go get a job or you have a means of providing for yourself or this like Femme Fatale content I think the reason why it blew up so much

is is because it gives you a false sense of power women feel like oh they're learning all these truth to like get the man and manipulate him but he's still the one in power is he reading all these books to like play tricks on you no

you're the one doing it still he has power over you now I think this content teaches you to not be yourself what happens if you do all these tricks you manipulate your personality to get this guy

you get him are you just going to keep up this facade I think that's a really sad existence it also teaches you to put the man on the pedestal while you're trying to do all these things to get him to

like you and to manipulate him you will probably lose sight of the fact that it's just as important that you like him when you're dating always going to the date with the mindset that he needs to

prove himself to me just as much okay don't feel the need to prove yourself to people who don't see your worth I think as a woman we always feel like we do need to prove

our worth especially because Society sees women as such one-dimensional creatures you're either smart or pretty you can't be both and if you're both I

feel like people don't take you as seriously for example if you're pretty and smart maybe she's not that smart or she's pretty it's just makeup there really needs to be a movement where women can be perceived as being more

than one thing we are so many people and we're allowed to be no one shames a man for also being funny and intelligent for also being attractive it seems like an advantage and I feel like for women

it's a disadvantage you're almost seen as a threat and therefore people would take you less seriously there was a study that I heard of um don't quote me on it because I'm maybe remembering it

incorrectly in the study there was a hypothetical woman who was more accomplished than the man and then afterwards the male participants were

given a set of images to rate how they perceived the hypothetical woman in their head and the series of images they could choose from it was basically like number one being a woman that was

barely dressed like maybe in a bikini or something to a fully clothed professional looking woman and the more accomplished they saw her in their head

the more they would imagine her to be less dressed because she was seen as a threat ponder that going back to point one women are not your competitors were not enemies

and there's a really great quote I love from Miranda Kerr's book where she describes women as being flowers like you're not going to compare a lily to a rose and be like one is more beautiful

than the other likewise you're not going to die a lily to look like a rose because they have innately unique beautiful qualities and that's what women are that's what

people like not just women okay this one may be controversial no it's not it's not if you find it controversial Europe jokes don't give away your body too easily what I mean by this is that

hookup culture mainly benefits women unless you're participating in it like Samantha Jones where she actually doesn't really care about the guy's feelings and she does everything for

herself but I think women that participate in hookup culture now they may do it because they feel like they're getting a sense of sexual Liberation or it's an act of sexual

Liberation and it is but only if you're doing it truly for yourself if you're doing it because you think I have power over man now or I'm doing

it to get the guy you're not liberated it just benefits the man because women there are more risks for us more likely to get pregnant more likely to get STDs

less likely to during the ACT you know but I want you to ask yourself whenever you go to hook up ask yourself is this what I really

want and what is the real reason I'm doing this also know that D is less valuable than P guys I have to censor myself on YouTube okay D is less

valuable than me D is everywhere p is not it is so much harder for a man to get pee and then for a woman to get a date early fans it is not empowering

we talked about false sense of empowerment in this video it's exactly that the whole premise is that women are sexually liberated now because they have

the option to sell their body online and I think a lot of women will call it empowering because yeah they make that decision for themselves and they have the ability to do so but true because

men are paying them to see this and I understand why people would feel like it's empowering but it's not because at the end of the day the man is still at the top who is the one deciding if

you're attractive enough to get paid for your body the guy if collectively all of your only fan subscribers decide that you are no longer attractive you lose all your money and there's a really

great quote I love from Emily radakowski's book once again don't quote me on it this is just like the gist basically the person that has the beauty is not the one in power it's the person that acknowledges

the beauty that has the power because if you aren't acknowledging the beauty it's their own Beauty something that really bugs me is when people will get

into this industry because on the basis that it's empowering it's not okay and you're really sending the message to wrong girls I respect the people that go into it knowing what it

is knowing it's not empowering and they don't try to sugarcoat it to make themselves feel better and I forgot the Creator but she was saying she makes like Millions a year from it but she's not happy she feels like it's so

disempowering she knows the truth okay and also most creators don't even earn a lot of money from it it's only like the top wow I this took a turn never chase a

man okay you're the prize never chase a man this can go back to the whole don't revolve your life around a man but really let them chase you okay don't let guys nag you and don't let guys also

diminish your self-worth or make you feel insecure are really common one is when men say women are done by 30 and your books will fade it's like a scare tactic to

make you more insecure so they can date you and I know so many guys are going to be pissed at this video because I made a similar one before and they were all like oh my God I actually should not be teaching women this because now it's

going to be harder for us to date I'm not doing it for you I'm doing it for my ladies women are knocked down by 30. and malcolony met George at like 36.

30. and malcolony met George at like 36.

so many others meet their husbands later on women will forever get pursued and the last thing I want to leave you with is try not to feed the male gaze and I know how difficult that is

because you know the Margaret would quote and it's basically like there is a man looking inside your head and on all your actions you're doing something like that and even if you're not feeding the male gaze by not feeding it you're

actually still performing for the male gaze it's so messed up and it's really hard for women to escape it like but what I want you to do in an attempt to free yourself

from the male gaze is whenever you're doing something ask yourself am I doing it for me or am I performing right now I would really love to hear your opinions in the comments I think it's really

important that we spark debate about this type of thing or get a conversation going and as always I'm so open to hearing different perspectives I love to hear it if there is something you don't agree with

feel free to leave a comment below remember you guys we're not enemies women are not enemies okay make sure you turn on post notifications also I would like to add I do have a

podcast coming out with my friend while I'm on her podcast and we are basically talking about this on there so yeah